Cats can form strong social bonds, and then they will happily share beds, toys, food, etc. The key to having two (or more!) peaceful feline occupants in one house is for them to have their own space and their own food and water. But whether you did or didn’t, you need to backtrack!Ĭats are territorial, and can find it difficult to share both territory and resources. You may or may not have done a phased introduction, starting with scent swapping and proceeding on through visual contact before a full physical introduction. There is no shame in needing help getting through a difficult situation.If your established cat is not tolerating the new kitten (either through overt aggression or by hiding away), it is best to re-start the whole process. Talk therapy is powerful and often necessary. Remind yourself that time cannot be slowed down or sped up but it will get easier for you to cope with each passing day.You will never truly be able to replace your cat but you may help fill the emptiness in your heart with a new one.
This may be completely out of the question for some people, but for others, they need that tangible, physical being to hold and pet. Talk about your cat and tell someone what you loved about your cat and why they were so special. If you can’t think of someone to call, try going online to a forum or support group for people who are experiencing the loss of a pet. Call an empathetic friend who loves cats and talk to them.Don’t forget that there are still many beautiful things about life, even though your cat is gone. Consider making a photo album, scrapbook, or shadow box to remember your cat and remind you of happier times. Try looking at pictures of your pet or sort through its favorite things.Pets grieve too so if you had a pet that was especially close to your cat it may help you both to spend time together. If you have another pet, spend time with them.Don’t be afraid to say you are sad or angry and acknowledge the hurt you are all feeling together. Surround yourself with other people who knew and loved your cat.Give the popular poem, " The Rainbow Bridge," a good read.
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